What a Yawn Says about Your Relationship

Yawning is more contagious among people who are emotionally close














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Nothing says “I love you” like a yawn? Image: Alex Gumerov/iStock

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You can tell a lot about a person from their body. And I don’t just mean how many hours they spend at the gym, or how easy it is for them to sweet-talk their way out of speeding tickets. For the past several decades researchers have been studying the ways in which the body reveals properties of the mind. An important subset of this work has taken this idea a step further: do the ways our bodies relate to one another tell us about the ways in which our minds relate to one another? Consider behavioral mimicry. Many studies have found that we quite readily mimic the nonverbal behavior of those with whom we interact. Furthermore, the degree to which we mimic others is predicted by both our personality traits as well as our relationship to those around us. In short, the more empathetic we are, the more we mimic, and the more we like the people we’re interacting with, the more we mimic. The relationship between our bodies reveals something about the relationship between our minds.

The bulk of this research has made use of clever experimental manipulations involving research assistant actors. The actor crosses his legs and then waits to see if the participant crosses his legs, too. If so, we’ve found mimicry, and can now compare the presence of mimicry with self-reports of, say, liking and interpersonal closeness to see if there is a relationship. More naturalistic evidence for this phenomenon has been much harder to come by. That is, to what extent do we see this kind of nonverbal back and forth in the real world and to what extent does it reveal the same properties of minds that seem to hold true in the lab?

A recent study conducted by Ivan Norscia and Elisabetta Palagi and published in the journal PLoSONE has found such evidence in the unlikeliest of places: yawns. More specifically, yawn contagion, or that annoyingly inevitable phenomenon that follows seeing, hearing (and even reading) about another yawn. You’ve certainly experienced this, but perhaps you have not considered what it might reveal to others (beyond a lack of sleep or your interest level in their conversation). Past work has demonstrated that, similar to behavioral mimicry, contagious yawners tend to be higher in dispositional empathy. That is, they tend to be the type of people who are better, and more interested in, understanding other people’s internal states. Not only that, but contagious yawning seems to emerge in children at the same time that they develop the cognitive capacities involved in empathizing with others. And children who lack this capacity, such as in autism, also show deficits in their ability to catch others’ yawns. In short, the link between yawning and empathizing appears strong.

Given that regions of the brain involved in empathizing with others can be influenced by the degree of psychological closeness to those others, Norscia and Palagi wanted to know whether contagious yawning might also reveal information about how we relate to those around us. Specifically, are we more likely to catch the yawns of people to whom we are emotionally closer? Can we deduce something about the quality of the relationships between individuals based solely on their pattern of yawning?  Yawning might tell us the degree to which we empathize with, and by extension care about, the people around us.


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  1. 1. sparcboy 11:53 AM 2/1/12

    When I'm tired and meet my loved ones, I often start yawning immediately. One because I'm tired and two because their presence is immensely calming. Sometimes I can feel my blood pressure dropping. It has the same relaxing sensation as when I'm very tired and take a shot of whiskey.

    So if I instigate the yawning when I come into the presence of those I'm close to, is their yawning caused by the same experience or an unconscious confirmation?

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  2. 2. rwstutler 06:15 AM 2/5/12

    Yawning as another window into a persons subconscious? Cool.

    I couldn't stop myself from yawning while reading this - though it was late and I was tired ...

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  3. 3. tommyoctober 08:39 AM 2/5/12

    As is the situation with many of these topics there is the surface reason, usually the refined psychological explanation, and the more innate, early and less refined evolutionary reason for a behavior. Yawning provided an observable sign to the rest of the herd that one or several of us is tired and it's a good idea for ALL of us to sleep herefor the night. 'Cause as we know since there's strength in numbers, the herd should stay together. One would yawn and then the others would yawn and then stop where they were.

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  4. 4. Raghuvanshi1 03:13 AM 7/6/12

    Yawning is expression about our fatigue,our tiredness.It is suggesting to take a rest, go to sleep. I don't believe it is about relationship.I agree yawning contagion,suppose some people sitting in railways compartment if one man yawned it may possible other also yawn.but it definitely sign of fatigue, tiredness tedium.

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